· One year on
This is an archive of the website we made for our wedding, put back up for our first anniversary. The guest list, RSVPs and registry have been retired; the story, the people and the photos stay here.
It all began with a swipe right on a cool evening in 2024. Abbi was drawn to Fred's adventurous spirit, while Fred was captivated by Abbi's warm smile and shared love for hotdogs. Our first date involved Fred plugging the Laser Loon and ended with hours of conversation that felt like minutes.
Since then, we've built a life filled with laughter, shared dreams and countless adventures. From exploring parks to cozy nights binge-watching our favorite shows, we've collected miles on the odometer, concert stubs, a few Wolves tickets and a growing library of inside jokes. We've supported each other through thick and thin, celebrated milestones like Abbi's graduation as a Nurse Practitioner, and learned that home isn't just a place but a feeling we find in each other.
As 2024 turned into 2025, Fred recreated our very first date in downtown Minneapolis. Just after the ball dropped, he asked Abbi to be his forever adventure partner. Through happy tears, she said yes.
On October 10, 2025 we said "I do" at the Plummer House in Rochester, a Tudor mansion that was once home to Dr. Henry Stanley Plummer of the Mayo Clinic, surrounded by the people we love most.
Emily Schultz
Maid of Honor
Sister of the bride
Callie Sebora
Bridesmaid
Sister of the bride
Isabella de Ruiter
Bridesmaid
Sister of the groom
Delaney Sebora
Bridesmaid
Sister of the bride
Vincent de Ruiter
Best Man
Brother of the groom
Peter de Ruiter
Groomsman
Brother of the groom
Caleb Sebora
Groomsman
Brother of the bride
Ethan Schultz
Groomsman
Brother of the bride